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* An Award Winning Heartwarmer *
CLOTHESLINE MEMORIES by Dawn Thompson
It's July, mid-summer and it's HOT. I walk into my garage to do laundry and am bowled over by how suffocating the air is in there! I feel guilty running the dryer in such heat. I think of the commercials on TV asking me to "give your appliances the afternoon off". Growing up, we never had a dryer in the house. My great grandmother lived with us, and she wouldn't have one. She thought dryers were for lazy people and a waste of money, and anyway, she liked how the laundry smelled so fresh hanging out on the line. Besides, it really wasn't necessary to have a dryer in Southern California -- there were always enough sunny days even in the winter to get the laundry done. Now with 3 boys in my house I am washing at least one load of beach towels, swimsuits and pool towels everyday. So, I decided to put up a clothesline in my backyard for the first time ever. I went down to the local Kmart and looked for clothesline and clothespins. I wasn't too sure they still made them, but I thought if they did they would surely have them at Kmart. I was pleased to find they did. I don't have the poles for the line in my yard like I did in my childhood home, so I set my clothesline up in the corner of the yard using the 45 degree angle of the fence to hang my line. When I was finished, I stepped back to admire my work and I was pleased with myself for thinking of it, conserving energy, and doing my part. What I wasn't prepared for were the feelings and the memories that came flooding back to me as I hung up that first load of laundry. Being out in the yard, smelling freshly washed towels, and with the sun on my back, I was suddenly in my yard I grew up in -- helping my grandmother hang out the clothes. She was always barefoot, dressed in a Hawaiian print mumu with an apron tied around her waist, safety pins on her dress front and a rubberband or two around her wrist (just in case someone needed one.) She would have her wicker basket full of clothes at her feet and a few wet items thrown over her shoulder as she hung clothes. Usually she would be singing a song or talking to the cats in the yard. Or sometimes she'd tell me a story about her childhood or her mother. If she had a bad day or something was bothering her, I remember she would say, "I sure wish I could sit on my mama's lap for a minute." All of that came rushing back to me crystal clear, like it happened yesterday. I could see her, feel her standing there with me. It has been at least 25 years since I have been in that yard with my grandma. I remember my grandmother often, think of her and miss her, but that first day in my backyard hanging clothes I felt like I had visited with her. I've never had that feeling going to her graveside or even looking at pictures. Hanging clothes used to feel like a chore. But now, I look forward to it. I enjoy going out in the yard to hang my laundry and use the time to just take a moment out of my busy day and think about things, or nothing at all -- and, have a little visit with my grandma. -- Dawn Thompson
3 comments:
Oh dear, I can't find the link my friend to your story!
Wow! Reading your story reminded me of my own childhood days of hanging clothes in the back yard. Mom always insisted that the undies be on the inside since our clothesline was about four 6 foot lines strung on 2 T poles. We always had several clothespins stuck in our mouth with a couple of wet things hanging on our shoulder.
Thanks for the memories :)
I loved your story. Thanks for sharing it with us. You write beautifully.....your Grandmom would be proud....and really, she was probably there with you whispering in your ear as you hung the clothes...Grandmoms do that sometimes.
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